7 skills you need to be successful in life

When people talk about skills they talk about “DSA , web development , project management , etc” or “long passing , dunk , ball control , shuttle shot and many sports skills”

But are this only the definition of skills in our life

obviously not

To be successfull you just need some skills just like the corporate world but a lot diffrent

corporate skills may help you to land your dream job or the business you built to desire

But it won’t help you in life

Life skills are the skills that enable you to be that man you want to be

This skills helps you to grow in every aspect of life whether be it business, relationship , or your whole mindset and vision towards life

this skills help you to find and accomplish your purpose towards life

so without wasting your precious time anymore , even though you’re gonna read it anyway

Here are the 7 skills

1. social skills :- social skills consist of 3 core sub-skills charisma , confidence and emotional intelligence . charisma helps you to attract people , confiedence helps you to earn respect from people and emotional intelligence helps you to be feared by other people . A man with excellence in all these is a social beast and is almost untouchable in all social situations . Chads respect this man , women love these man , jeffery’s envy this man , ambitious man aspire to be like them , the higher order fear this man .

2. Discipline :- An evergreen skill , if you can master it believe me you don’t even need this email . Now if you’re living under a stone and don’t know what discipline really is , doing the hardwork especially when you don’t feel like it . Just show up no matter what , this is discipline , even the smallest progress you put in will one day sum up and will transform into something big and epic . Discipline isn’t about perfection and accomplishments it’s about consistency and determination . A man who shows up no matter what is bound for greatness

3. Time management :- An underrated yet one of the best skills to master. Before anyhting read this alex hormozi quote “Rich people buy time with money , poor people buy stuff with time and money , ambitious people buy skills and knowledge through time and money , lazy people buy distarctions with time and money “ . Time is the most valueable resource one can gather and control . A man who can manage his time efficiently works more productively , has more time to spend with his loved ones and posses full control of his life .

4. Stoicism :- Again an evergreen skill to master , stoicism is some way similar to discipline on the action initiation but it’s a lot different on the mentality side . Stoicism helps an individual to embrace hardships, pain , sufferings and gives a very different perception than the just show up mentality . Any great personality you aspire to be or respect posess this skill . A stoic man is highly respected in his tribe , women crave for this man and again higher order fear this man .

5.  Sales :- One of my personal favorites . Now before blabbing listen to me , don’t you earn money by selling a product or a service , so which skill do you need to maximize your sales , obviously it’s sales . By learning about sales ,firstly you can monetize anything whether be one of your art pieces or knowledge and expertise you posses , Secondly this skill alone can earn you money whether as a side hustle or a business . Any entrepreneur you aspire to be has a good knowledge of sales and marketing . It has changed my life at a whole and so can yours .

6. Patience :- up to date never heard anyone speak about it , very underrated yet powerful . Patience is built up by emotional intelligence and discipline . In simple language patience is a art of not giving a F about your emotions and waiting for the right time . It’s a hard skill to master but believe me this skill will make you feared and desired at the same time .

7. Meditation :- one of the best here , if not the best among all . I have talked about it a lot in my past emails feel free to check them , in short meditation enables you to calm your body into a state of introspection and stillness which helps you to regain your lost focus and guides you to your true purpose . Any successful individual you look upto meditates , so you should be doing it aswell

8. (Bonus) :- A skill talked in almost every religious texts of the world . This skill keeps your feet always on the ground and helps you love the journey rather than the destination . It helps you to keep the hunger and desire to be the best alive , it eliminates ego and develop self love . This skill is Humility

This is a start of a new series where we will talk about each 7 , sorry 8 skills briefly. I hope you tune in to support the series .

In the next post we’ll dive deep into social skills and why they’re the foundation of success . Also the 1st law of our 48 laws of power series coming on Monday , don’t forget to check it out , I promise this email will be worth of your precious time . stay tuned

until then

peace 🕊️