Social skills , Enjoy

Have you ever felt that life seems unfair

People who are far more less talented and good looking than you

getting the girls you like

getting the opportunity you desire

getting the respect you crave for

I know that feeling very well because i went through it myself

it burns to see people far less talented than you to get the things you deserve

but how do they get this

luck , maybe but no

so how do they get these

By the words they speak

Now you would be cursing me and saying how is that even possible

Bro , a single word you utter inside the world can make you or break you and we are talking about words

Now if you shift your focus from cursing me you will realize that

The guy who scored your desired girl was confident enough to speak to her , while you were sitting around waiting for the right time

The guy who secured the promotion or the role you desired spoke well to everyone , rather than blabbing around his abilities, he listened to others irrespective of their ranks , he controlled his emotions around everyone and respected his seniors . while you were acting your usual aggressive , blabbing self .

The guy with the power you crave for is

confident , emotionally intelligent and charismatic

In a nutshell

He possessed social skills

Which you don’t have

So bro do you want to know more about social skills or for the rest of your life you want to see others take what you deserve

If you chose to know more about social skills then lets roll in without any delay

So basically social skills are the subtle art of understanding others interest and desires and speaking accordingly to their interest and desires . Some use them to manipulate while some to build connections , i want you all to use it for both

Social skills aren’t a simple thing to master , it can be mastered by first mastering it’s 3 pillars

social skills consist of 3 core sub-skills

charisma , confidence and emotional intelligence

Charisma helps you to attract people

Confidence helps you to earn respect from people and

Emotional intelligence helps you to be feared by other people

now charisma and emotional intelligence are very vast topics and hard to explain in short so i would recommend two books you can read to build this skills

1. How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie

2. 48 laws of power by Robert green

Believe me just read this two books and you will thank me later , btw i am decoding 48 laws of power into separate 48 laws , where i will be dropping each law each week packed with valuable insights and practical methods to apply them in IRL , by the time this will be posted already 1st law will be published , so you can follow that series to get some insights

As for confidence , i will be your expert as I myself from a shy kid became one of the most confident individuals you can find around (until it’s about girls )

So confidence depends upon two principles self belief and self knowledge

when you believe in yourself confidence naturally flows in , but most of us don’t believe in ourselves , it’s natural , it’s the societies fault but it’s upto you to build it back

Self belief can be build by two ways

one by cutting of people opinions who try to demotivate you and surrounding yourself with people that value your true value . cutoff negative friends , Avoid your family members if they degrade your self belief and surround yourself with good friends .

It was the no. 1 thing that i did to improve my confidence , my family members always tried to tell me i couldn’t do anything , so i avoided their opinions , result i was doing way better , same goes for friends .

secondly Law of attraction

law of attraction says that what you truly desire the most will come towards you no matter what .

Now i truly don’t believe in it but i believe that everyone should practice law of attraction , as it has not only helped me to be more confident but also to be more focused in my work .

So how can one integrate LOA in their life , it’s simple just close your eyes and think about how would you see yourself after being successful , it can be anything cars , money , power , girls . This is called Manifestation .

Suppose you see a attractive girl and you want to ask her out , now if you visualize yourself having a great conversation with that girl and then in IRL approach this girl , wouldn’t you be more confident while speaking towards her . So from today only at least for 5 mins practice manifestation , you will thank me later

So now self knowledge is a bit subjective as it depends on many things as it can be your abilities , knowledge or your physical attractiveness . To grow in this area you have to expand your skillset in every of these 3 departments . Believe me it’s not hard and if your self belief is high it’s piece of cake for you , you just need time

i will say it again

Believe in yourself

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Peace 🕊️ ​