why i want a growth oriented wife over a traditional feminine wife

The self improvement and most importantly the red pill community has started a war against feminism or the blue pill community

While i fully follow and support the red pill community and I am against majority feminist and blue pill ideas

But , Avoiding women's who work hard for their dreams and constantly thrives to improve themselves

Calling them self-centered , bi*** , feminist is just absurd and illogical

Majority of the time this people are the keyboard warriors who don’t do anything about theirs own life and feel insecure of this woman's success and drive towards self development

Sadly the self improvement community don’t value this woman’s

Almost every creator inside the space of self improvement tells to avoid these woman and run for a traditional women who would wait for them every time and value them over anything .

Now a traditional feminine women can be the dream of many individuals and i completely respect that and i also value a woman with that qualities but i don’t fully resonate with this type of woman who will just depend upon me for her survival and who doesn’t truly value growth and adaptability often valuing stability over growth

I don’t follow the like pole unlike pole bullshit but rather

The 1+1=2 mentality

I want my future wife to posses a growth mindset and a hunger to constantly improve herself

Now for me empathy and time for each other is a non-negotiable value i look out for

But i believe a woman with a growth mindset and hustling mentality can also posses feminine qualities

When i would see my future wife i shouldn’t feel “ i have to take care of her “ but rather feel “Seeing her makes me even work more harder than ever”

If in a nutshell i would have to conclude my ideal wife , it will be

“she will share the same values as me”

 I call it the 1+1=2 mindset

Now i have a CTA for you all , right down the values you want as well as the values you don’t want from your future wife in notion or a piece of paper , also give a rating out of 5 to each value according to your importance regarding the value . You can also journal about this in your journaling time . To let you all understand the practice i am sharing my list

Must have :-

1. Growth mindset (5)

2. Emotional intelligence (5)

3. visionary thinking (5)

4. Adaptability (4)

5. Charisma (4)

6. leadership (4)

7. Empathy (4)

8. Mutual Respect (5)

Avoid :-

1. Perfectionism (1)

2. overthinking (1)

3. Impatience (2)

4. People pleaser (1)

5. Clinginess (2)

6. Opposite of all must have (0)

Now you all will be asking about physical attractiveness , background stuff . Well this are external factors and you should always aim higher , it’s your partner we are talking about neither a fling nor a casual friend , remember often every shiny object isn’t gold and golds value remains the same despite where it was found , so choose wisely bro .

so as you all have guessed this is a start of a new series where i will share my most unpopular opinions and debate with you all guys . so this series has something unique than the past other series , as 1. It will never end , 2. It won’t have any posting schedule , as a unpopular opinion will pop into my head and i will write about it .

I am excited about this series as with this series i can connect with you all guys and you all can know me better as this opinions some time can be based on personal experiences compelling us to my past .

make sure to tune in to follow more such content in the future , until then

peace🕊️